Look to the sky here in New Zealand as Batman is going to conquer the beehive and this time he will have many helpers.F4J is alive and well here in kiwiland.We demand equal rights and we will achieve our objective no matter what the cost. Are you loud and clear on that you filthy scum suckers that staff the corrupt femily court. Can the gender bias 'system'explain why I must continue to pay child support for my two daughters when they live under my roof. The IRD are nothing more than extortion gangsters and the femily court a den of lies.

Hey judge leave those kids alone!

Parental 'poison' of kids on rise

It reveals fathers are almost as likely as mothers to be guilty of deliberately alienating the children from the other parent.
Nicholas Bala, professor of law at Queens University in Canada and an expert in parental alienation, will present his findings of Australian data at a seminar in Melbourne this month at the Australian Institute of Family Studies.

He said there were genuine cases of parental alienation - where children were brainwashed and manipulated into an unfounded fear and rejection of the other parent.

''But there are other cases where the child has legitimate reasons to be afraid of a parent,'' he said, ''and it's important for the court to unpack the real reasons.''

The study found that where a parent was found to have alienated the child from the other parent, judges ordered the child live with the ''rejected'' parent in half the cases.

''It's controversial and dramatic to order a change of residence but in more severe cases children will not respond to counselling if they continue to live with the alienating parent,'' Professor Bala said.
It was preferable for judges in appropriate cases to cajole, pressure and persuade parents to change their behaviour, and to recognise both were often at fault.

The data, based on a search in cases before the Family Court of Australia and the Family Court of Western Australia found about 230 cases since 1997.

"We've always believed we'll take what we're given"


Amazing that these good folk can bounce back after such a tragedy.They have done it with the help of faith. No other reason can explain the miraculous gift of another child and their resilient nature.




http://www.stuff.co.nz/world/americas/6359707/Couple-that-lost-seven-children-in-fire-expecting-baby

Children  win legal right to see both parents after divorce

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/politics/9058018/Children-win-legal-right-to-see-both-parents-after-divorce.html



Children are for the first time to be given the legal right to have a proper relationship with both their parents after a divorce, The  Telegraph can disclose Ministers intend to rewrite the law in an attempt to ensure that fathers get improved  access to their offspring after a marriage breaks down.



Currently,family courts decide to leave children with their mothers in the vast majority  of divorce cases.



Campaigners have long complained that without a legal right to see their children, fathers can be excluded, particularly when a split has been acrimonious. By creating the new right for children, ministers hope that judges ruling on custody disputes will ensure more equal access for both parents.



A ministerial working group will be announced on Monday to decide  how the Children’s Act 1989 needs to be amended.



According  to the Office for National Statistics, one in three children, equivalent to 3.8 million, lives without their father. Ministers are particularly concerned about boys growing up without a strong male influence.



Eighty per cent of single parents in Britain are fathers.

The announcement will give hope to campaign groups that have argued for years that  fathers deserve a legal right to more equal access after a  divorce.



It will also overturn the main finding of an independent official review  into family justice by David Norgrove, which reported in November. He concluded that it would be too onerous for judges to ensure greater equality of  access.



Ministers are bracing themselves for a backlash from single mothers’ groups that are concerned about the possibility of aggressive fathers  intervening in the lives of their children.



The working group, comprising education ministers Tim Loughton and  Sarah Teather,and justice minister Jonathan Djanogly, has been asked to come up with proposals on how the law should be changed within two months.



Campaign  group Fathers4Justice claims that every day 200 children lose  contact with  their fathers because of decisions taken in family courts. Under the plans the1989 Act could be amended to include a “presumption of shared  parenting”, this newspaper has learnt.



Mr Loughton last night told The Daily Telegraph: “The state cannot create happy  families, or broker amicable break-ups.



“But if children are having decent, loving parents pushed out of their  lives, we owe it to them to change the system that lets this happen.”



One official said the Government wanted to remove any “inbuilt legal  bias against the father or the mother” in the law. The official said: “This  is about the children. Both parents should have a full and continuing role in        a child’s life  after they separate.



“Where  there are no significant welfare issues, we would want to see this principle reinforced through law. We will make a legislative statement emphasising the importance of children having an ongoing relationship with both their parents at separation, when it is safe and in the child’s best  interests.



Mr  Norgrove originally proposed a right to equal access in law for both parents  last March and then dropped it from his final 220-page report in November.



He said   it would put too much pressure on judges to set out the exact  length of time that each divorced parent should spend with their children.



Mr Norgrove, who chairs the Low Pay Commission, cited evidence from Australia which suggested children suffered more when courts imposed time limits on  access to parents.



Mr Loughton, who had campaigned to change the law when in  opposition, suggested Mr  Norgrove had read too much into the Australian example.



He  added: “The concept of 'shared parenting’ after a break-up often  gets confused with the idea of equal time that a child spends with each   parent.



“Quite clearly, ordinary living and working arrangements make an equal division impossible, and undesirable, in all but a small minority of   cases.



“In all of this, the most important thing remains the principle that the child’s welfare is the paramount consideration and this must not be diluted.”



Ministers   are also set to announce a £10million fund to encourage more  parents to use  mediation. Mr Loughton added: “The courts are rarely the best place for resolving private disputes about the care of children.”

Feminists plan pigtail protest over Prosser book

19 Crazy Things That School Children Are Being Arrested For In America

The American Dream
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
With each passing year, the difference between America’s prisons and America’s public schools becomes smaller and smaller. As you read the rest of this article, you will be absolutely amazed at some of the crazy things that school children in America are being arrested for. When I was growing up, I don’t remember a single police officer ever coming to my school. Discipline was always handled by the teachers and by the principals.
But today, there are schools all over the country that have police officers permanently stationed in the halls. Many other schools will call out police officers at the drop of a hat. In the classrooms of America today, if you burp in class, if you spray yourself with perfume or if you doodle on your desk, there is a chance that you will be arrested by the police and hauled out of your school in handcuffs. Unfortunately, we live in a country where paranoia has become standard operating procedure. The American people have become convinced that the only way that we can all be “safe” is for this country to be run like a militarized totalitarian police state. So our public schools are run like prisons and our public school students are treated like prisoners. The United States has the highest incarceration rate in the world by far, and our schools are preparing the next generation to either “do time” in the prison system or to live as good little slaves in the Big Brother prison grid that is being constructed all around us. But what our schools are not doing is giving these children the critical thinking skills that they need to live as free citizens in a nation that used to be “the land of the free and the home of the brave”.
Of course very few people would deny that the character of American schoolchildren has changed dramatically over the decades. Back in the 1950s, some of the biggest school discipline problems were gum chewing and hair pulling. Today, kids bring knives, guns and drugs with them to school. Gang activity is rampant in many of our schools and in some schools kids are evenhaving sex in the school bathrooms.
So there is definitely a discipline problem in our schools.
But what is going on in many areas of the country is absolutely ridiculous. For example, in 2010 alone police down in Texas issued an astounding 300,000tickets to school children.
Yes, if a kid pulls a knife on someone the police should get involved, but teachers and administrators should be able to use some common sense and handle the vast majority of discipline problems that happen themselves.
What you are about to read is absolutely going to amaze you. The following are 19 really crazy things that school children are being arrested for in America….
#1 At one public school down in Texas, a 12-year-old girl named Sarah Bustamantes was recently arrested for spraying herself with perfume.
#2 A 13-year-old student at a school in Albuquerque, New Mexico was recently arrested by police for burping in class.
#3 Another student down in Albuquerque was forced to strip down to his underwear while five adults watched because he had $200 in his pocket. The student was never formally charged with doing anything wrong.
#4 A security guard at one school in California broke the arm of a 16-year-old girl because she left some crumbs on the floor after cleaning up some cake that she had spilled.
#5 One teenage couple down in Houston poured milk on each other during a squabble while they were breaking up. Instead of being sent to see the principal,they were arrested and sent to court.
#6 In early 2010, a 12-year-old girl at a school in Forest Hills, New York was arrested by police and marched out of her school in handcuffs just because she doodled on her desk. “I love my friends Abby and Faith” was what she reportedly scribbled on her desk.
#7 A 6-year-old girl down in Florida was handcuffed and sent to a mental facility after throwing temper tantrums at her elementary school.
#8 One student down in Texas was reportedly arrested by police for throwing paper airplanes in class.
#9 A 17-year-old honor student in North Carolina named Ashley Smithwick accidentally took her father’s lunch with her to school. It contained a small paring knife which he would use to slice up apples. So what happened to this standout student when the school discovered this? The school suspended her for the rest of the year and the police charged her with a misdemeanor.
#10 In Allentown, Pennsylvania a 14-year-old girl was tasered in the groin area by a school security officer even though she had put up her hands in the air to surrender.
#11 Down in Florida, an 11-year-old student was arrested, thrown in jail and charged with a third-degree felony for bringing a plastic butter knife to school.
#12 Back in 2009, an 8-year-old boy in Massachusetts was sent home from school and was forced to undergo a psychological evaluation because he drew a picture of Jesus on the cross.
#13 A police officer in San Mateo, California blasted a 7-year-old special education student in the face with pepper spray because he would not quit climbing on the furniture.
#14 In America today, even 5-year-old children are treated brutally by police. The following is from a recent article that described what happened to one very young student in Stockton, California a while back….

Earlier this year, a Stockton student was handcuffed with zip ties on his hands and feet, forced to go to the hospital for a psychiatric evaluation and was charged with battery on a police officer. That student was 5 years old.

#15 At one school in Connecticut, a 17-year-old boy was thrown to the floor andtasered five times because he was yelling at a cafeteria worker.
#16 A teenager in suburban Dallas was forced to take on a part-time jobafter being ticketed for using foul language in one high school classroom. The original ticket was for $340, but additional fees have raised the total bill to $637.
#17 A few months ago, police were called out when a little girl kissed a little boy during a physical education class at an elementary school down in Florida.
#18 A 6-year-old boy was recently charged with sexual battery for some “inappropriate touching” during a game of tag at one elementary school in the San Francisco area.
#19 In Massachusetts, police were recently sent out to collect an overdue library book from a 5-year-old girl.
Unfortunately, what is going on in our schools is a reflection of the broader society as a whole. Our schools are being turned into prisons because our entire society is being turned into a giant prison.
Our nation is rapidly heading down the toilet, and the children of this nation do not have a bright future to look forward to.
If the police really want to find some criminals, they should start investigating some of the sickos that are in charge of some of these classrooms.
It seems like almost every day now there is a news story about some public school teacher that is involved in some kind of really perverted stuff.
For example, just check out what police down in Los Angeles recently found that one teacher was hiding….

A former Los Angeles elementary school teacher has been arrested for felony molestation of nearly two dozen students, accused of gagging children and putting live cockroaches on some of their faces. Deputies say the crimes were committed on campus.

Sickos who do that kind of stuff to kids should be punished very severely.
America’s schools are changing, and not for the better.
Personally, I went to public schools all my life, but I would not recommend that anyone send their kids to public schools today. There is just way too much crazy stuff that goes on.
And our kids are learning less than ever in these public schools. As I have written about previously, many of them are coming out of the system as dumb as a rock. Instead of teaching our kids how to think critically and examine all sides of an issue, these schools are indoctrinating our kids and pushing particular social and political agendas on them.
There are a few public schools out there that are still good, but the vast majority of them are horrible. They are not producing the leaders of tomorrow and they are not preparing the next generation with the tools that they need to survive in a complex world.
So is there much hope that our schools can be turned around? Feel free to leave a comment with your opinion below….